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01-Jan-2020 16:03

Although straight dating apps are also popular with people wanting hookups, it could be argued gay men pioneered the openness around casual sex and specialist apps, born both of convenience and necessity: gay dating apps offer gay, bi and trans men a safe space to express themselves, on the understanding that everyone is there for the same reason and an approach will not offend. Bi guy Alex says he gets asked for nudes “within minutes of initiating conversation.

There definitely seems to be a culture of pressuring for nudes in the gay community.”So if nudes are now totally normal – a pretty tame activity to younger generations, it seems – what’s stopping those who don’t send them?

“It’s a bit like in a gameshow when they wheel out the grand prize. ’”The rules around sending nudes seem fairly simple, but boundaries are overstepped constantly – usually by men.

Most people would say an unsolicited dick pic is unwelcome – it’s much more polite to ask if they’d like one, or respond to a request – and yet men can’t seem to help themselves.

I never send them under those circumstances.”Unwelcome nudes are the top turnoff, but a close second would be a nude photo with zero artistry.

Technological advances have revolutionised dating experiences and sex lives too: apps, sexting, sex over Face Time, and, of course, the big one. The term “send nudes” is such second nature for anyone on a dating app or social media that it quickly became a meme and can be seen graffitied all over the world.

Although sending a naked photo has been possible for years – albeit more grainy, slow to load, or even in print, the farther back in time you go – it’s only in the last few years that the act of sending a photo of, or including, your tackle has become a regular NBD part of the seduction process.

High-spec cameras, filtering and high-speed internet connections mean you can have the idea, whip it (or them) out, take the snap and send with barely a moment's thought.

She says she receives way more than she sends and if she does return them, it’s under her own terms.

“When I’ve been asked [to send a nude] it’s off the back of an unsolicited pic from them and they’ve requested tit for tat – literally.

Technological advances have revolutionised dating experiences and sex lives too: apps, sexting, sex over Face Time, and, of course, the big one. The term “send nudes” is such second nature for anyone on a dating app or social media that it quickly became a meme and can be seen graffitied all over the world.Although sending a naked photo has been possible for years – albeit more grainy, slow to load, or even in print, the farther back in time you go – it’s only in the last few years that the act of sending a photo of, or including, your tackle has become a regular NBD part of the seduction process.High-spec cameras, filtering and high-speed internet connections mean you can have the idea, whip it (or them) out, take the snap and send with barely a moment's thought.She says she receives way more than she sends and if she does return them, it’s under her own terms.“When I’ve been asked [to send a nude] it’s off the back of an unsolicited pic from them and they’ve requested tit for tat – literally.Sending naked pictures has long been possible, but in the 21st century it's astonishingly easy.