Dating for shy men

07-Jan-2020 18:50

After knowing some people for ten minutes I generally have a good idea if I want to be in their presence or stay a million miles away. So, basically, make sure she’s aware that you exist.

And not through a friend of a friend, make sure she’s talked to you at least once and for about five minutes.

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And don’t try and manipulate this situation either.

If you try and manipulate it then when you move from dating to being in a relationship with each other she’s going to eventually find out that you’re clingy AF. I had only wanted a woman to share my life with and that’s all I ever wanted, so finding time for myself was always put on the back burner.

Meeting people in large groups is obviously easier to organise and carry out on the internet, it's more public, more organised, and there is practically no effort involved in joining; this is exactly why our site has attracted so many singles looking for shy dating.

Okay, so I don’t mean go all out and say, “I want to have sex with you” because it clearly doesn’t work like that, and you’ll be shoved on the backburner of people she tries not to talk to.

Stating intention can be verbally, or non-verbally, or a mixture of both.

She’ll keep you as a friend (if she likes you as a person) because you haven’t told her otherwise, and if you leave it long enough she’ll view you as a sexless friend she can tell everything about her relationships with, just not any relationship she views you in with her, ever.

To be clear there’s nothing wrong with being friends with women, but if you have a romantic interest in this woman it’s only fair and honest to communicate this to her very early on.

Meeting people in large groups is obviously easier to organise and carry out on the internet, it's more public, more organised, and there is practically no effort involved in joining; this is exactly why our site has attracted so many singles looking for shy dating.

Okay, so I don’t mean go all out and say, “I want to have sex with you” because it clearly doesn’t work like that, and you’ll be shoved on the backburner of people she tries not to talk to.

Stating intention can be verbally, or non-verbally, or a mixture of both.

She’ll keep you as a friend (if she likes you as a person) because you haven’t told her otherwise, and if you leave it long enough she’ll view you as a sexless friend she can tell everything about her relationships with, just not any relationship she views you in with her, ever.

To be clear there’s nothing wrong with being friends with women, but if you have a romantic interest in this woman it’s only fair and honest to communicate this to her very early on.

Here’s the thing though, if you don’t learn to find time for yourself and be your own person then no-one is going to be very interested in you.